Swinging is not simply being open about your sexual feelings with your partner and discussing possibly being adventurous about it. You and your partner should follow some swinging principles to ensure that your encounter is also fun and fulfilling and you are able to make and meet some new swinging friends. The following are some suggested swinging principles that you and your partner may want to use:

1. You and your partner should never attempt to break up a marriage or any relationship.
2. When a date to meet other swingers is made, always honor that date or else give ample time of notice for changing circumstances Cancelling or flaking out can lead to a bad reputation in the swingers community
3. It is important to keep the first meeting on a "no strings attached" basis. You and your partner should be prepared to swing if it is mutually agreed or to give an honest answer if something does not work out Let this other couple know up front if you are either Full Swap or Soft Swap
4. It is reminder that you never under any circumstances exercise pressure on your partner to swing This can lead to a very bad experience and one that can ruin your relationship.
5. It is suggested that you and your partner restrict discussions of swinging to known swingers and interested individuals seeking information It is always best to keep your private life private.
6. Be wise and protect the anonymity of other swingers by abstaining from unauthorized "name dropping."
7. For the stake of other swingers, always maintain the highest standards of personal cleanliness and appearance.
8. Be smart and not to engage in any unlawful activity that would harm the reputation of other swingers as a group.
9. Always be friendly and warm with your swing partners. Be understanding that there is a type of emotional involvement, which is properly reserved for a spouse or "primary significant other."?
10. Lastly, remember to show respect for the personal attitudes and feelings of other swingers.